subjective

success is subjective,isnt it ?

a pro basketballer :

feels success if he could score 100 times and aim for MVP.

an amateur basketballer :

would feel success with only one time score and can be grateful just to be a part of the game.

however if

the pro player dont get the title, he will be damn sad,

but not for the amateur .

all the amateur cares about is a chance to score and he will be sad if he didnt.

because for both of them sad coz they think it is a Failure.

u might think to drive a car is success

while i say to ride a bike is a success to0.

so now, why d0es the different failure differs from one another ?

is it because the expectati0ns ?

yes.

expectation varies cause they know where they stand .

they know what they can afford of for the time being.

they know their strenght .

but to some people , or the spectators ,

either of them that cant achieve 100 scores is a Failure !

oh why ppl ? why u have to feel that way?

oh , hopes?

u dont kn0w what they had been through

u dont know what their expectations

u dont know what they did t0 come this far .

u just dont know.

maybe for u it is a failure,

but for s0me reas0ns

to s0me pe0ple.

that Failure will make them s0meone in the future.

Failure might means

*u screwed ! *

or *dissapointment*

it might also means

*find y0urself*

*this may not suit u*

*reflect reflect !*

failure to some ppl, but a chance to some other ppl .

failure is devastating arent there ?

it hurts, really .

so why cant u give a little support here?

instead of throwing ur disappointment.

past is past

but we can we make up for the future .

oh n yeah ,

failure is a pending success :)

p/s:

focus more on desire to success

than

the worry to fail